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Jamie: Hey,Welcome back, I've missed you friend. Glad to see you had a safe trip. Glad you had a good trip.
tracy: hello holly!! hope all is well! nice layout lol if ya ever need anything more, let me know!
jay: just wanted to say hello! hey, nice lay-out hah! too busy to update my blogs. I'll be back in due time. A peaceful day to you!
Pika: I see you've changed your layout! fantastic!
Hazel Quinn: WoooOOOooOoo!Have a gr8 weekend, honeybun look forward to your next broadcast!
Kitten: Hey Holly, hope your doing fine. I'm kind of back, I think. *hugs*
Hazel: Thank you!! Mike and I are a long way down the path BUT each true message of comfort helps a million times over - and how many people can say that? Our current truths are also our blessings...
Hazel: ee, silly me! Sorry about cross-pollinating your blogs!I get all over-excited! Thanks for keeping me straight - looking forward 2 your next blogstar broadcast (All hail The Holly!)
The Holly Tree: Hi everyone! Thanks for all the great tags, you guys! Jacki, you are too funny, girl. Joy, I've commented on your journal. Robilaine, I dropped by your page, too. Azodnem! I luvs ya, sweet thang!
Robilaine: hi,just dropping by... nice blogs...ill add you... add me too... tnx
Joy: Hi Holly,Waiting for your questions. I know you prolly been too busy tho. Heard you on blogstar.
MadartistJ: Hello sweet lady. How are you. Busy I am sure..that is what life is I see. Peeing in the pants laughing again? Tee hee. Smiles are so much better, eh? Love ya.J
Jamie: Hey,I saw where you posted on a mutual friends blog so I thought I'd drop by & say hi. I like your blog, it seems nice & friendly.
Azodnem: Hey Gorgeous, (been uber-busy), but wanted to swing by and show you some virtual-love. LOL. *Big Hugs*
kwkyori: hey there thanks for the welcome ^_^i really appreciate it...
kiss4krissy: Hi Holly! Thanks so much for sticking with me! I'm here, just took a little break. I've been real busy! But you'll see that soon when I post my updates tonight! Love ya! Talk to you soon!
tracy Radford: so gr8 to 'meet' you last night at blogstar!
Joseph - Director: just wanted to stop by and say hi!! whats up??
LWM: New Message shared by The ALBs read it if you want to ignore it if you like, its your choice
Joy: Holly, you want to know more about ME? Really?
Hazel: Investigation update for Holly: in the comments section of the entry Jerri's put up more details about times and stuff to do, etc.
Hazel Quinn: July 9th/08 Hi Holly. I've now put up on my blog the info about the live paranormal investigation webcast happening tonite.Thought it might be up your street.Hope you're having a good day!!!
Marie: Oops
Marie: Hi Holly, it's wet and dreary here - hope it's brighter there.
Hazel Quinn: So Holly, I gather from your comment you didn't find the Jane Austen entry very funny...
Joseph - Director: hey whats up?!? you should come check out my new look and post!
Geoff: Thanks so much for your comment Holly, I've only been in this community a week and I'm already discovering great great people! :)
Hazel Quinn: Your neighbours r SO thoughtless.Anyhooos,finally got caught up on the links for my new blog & obviously have put up both your sites.Hope you've caught up on sleep.
jay: lots of thanks for popping by. I love your weekly pics. Lately, I was too lazy to update my blogs. Anyway, new thoughts are brewing, waiting to be released. HAVE A FRUITFUL WEEK!
Pika: You've been BOINKED! Visit my blog for details. (See header)
Azodnem: Have a wonderful and safe holiday, gorgeous.
Joseph - Director: hey whats up, ive just been running around and doing some hopping along the way, how have you been?
Prango: Sorry I missed you at the forum, great to see you there, weather is nice for few days, then more rain on the fourth...geeeeze!!!
Joseph - Director: hey just wanted to say hi, you should stop by. happy blogging!
Geoff: Hi Holly, thanks for my first tag! First Blog I've had so we'll see how it goes :)
Joy: Hi Holly, I was not offended by your questions Michelle is the one who answered you, not I. Hope she was helpful.
Wend: Just want to say thank you for your comment & the link in my journal. I hope to get to know more about you.
Hazel: ..happy..weeken...
Hazel: just..trying 2..stay awake long enough to say goodnight..&..happy..weeken...
Melissa: Heyya, Holly! Just stopping by to wish you a great weekend! Thanks for the wings by my place and notes. BIG HUGS,
Joseph - Director: hey, just wanted to say thank you. peoples words and encourage meant have helped me cope with the situation. im going to add your blog to mine. and again, thanks.
The Holly Tree: Friday, June 27/08, 2:08PM: Hi Jacki! It's great to hear from you! I know all about the pending visit, and I'm really excited for you and your hubby, and for Norm, too. I know you guys are going to have a great time. Have a great weekend, dear lady. Love you!
MadartistJ: Good day to you sweet lady. Thinking of you today. May be seeing a certain Vancover guy over the weekend who is RV'ing in da states. He wants to take hubby and I out to lunch. He is too cool! Have an awesome weekend lovely one.
K'Jan: I wanted to thank you for your comments to my blogs. I can't tell you how much they mean to me. You're a special lady, Holly!
Marie: I like your style and hello from England.
jay: hi, holly! welcome back! and thanks for dropping by. Great day ahead!
Ambrose_Babbage: Hey, thanks for tagging me earlier this afternoon. My journal is an in-character journal for a Camarilla Fan Club-based Changeling: the Lost chronicle.
John: Hi, Thanks for the comment on my mp3delight blog. You might find this tool useful. http://www.seoworkers.com/tools/analyzer.htmlYou are currently showing 124 links out. I reduced mine as recommended by archiving my 'friends' URLS so they are from another page, effectively.
Chloe(Claire): By the way, thanks for the comment you left at my Bravenet blog and thanks for the inspiration
Chloe: Hi, Holly! Remember when I told you that you have empowered me to write for a purpose and not be just a blogger on a blogging site? I revived my old blog. Still lots to do there. Here's the link:www.clairesienesbyheart.blogspot.comYep, CLAIRE is ME:)
Grizz: Just popping in, been on a break for a few...new post that really has me steamed...lol Welcome back Holly..take care
BUTTERFLY: HELLO
Hazel Quinn: Understandably it's ben a while since we heard from you. I SO hope things are working themselves out.
Susan : This is a very unique and creative blog. I truly have enjoyed my visit.Thanks, ;) S
Lorena: Nice Blog!
jay: Holly, thank you so much for your comments on my "First Experience of Death..." I really appreciate your thoughtfulness. I felt hugged and comforted. Thank you! GBU
Henric: Holly, I seem to be missing your email addy could you send it to me - cubsaver at wildmail dot comHugs
Chloe: Hi. I've been blog hopping and found my way here. I think it's kind of you to post blogs that you read, like Kelly's Corner.I will check out the other blogs you mentioned here, if only to reach out to other hurting people.
The Holly Tree: Hi Jay. You're welcome. Glad you were able to add me without any trouble.
Jay: great! thanks, holly for the tip!
jay: hi, holly! congrats! Im happy for you. btw, I want to put your link in my page but dont know how. Im still learning how to navigate around here. Have a peaceful day!
Marites: Hi Holly..thank you for the comment. I sure my friend can see all through these.
boink: CONGRATS for winning JOW!
Pika: WOW! Journal of the week!
Hazel: I'm so excited you've won 'JOW'! I had to put up an entry on my blog telling the guys there, too. Yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!
Jay: Hi, Holly! I just opened my blog and saw you notes! How can I help you? Have a peaceful day, my friend!
Hazel: S'early Mon morn here so have a good week - keep enjoying them rainbows!
prango: thanks Holly...
Pika: Hi there... blog hoppin here
Marites: Hi there...you have very nice pictures:) have a good weekend.
Holly: Really, Prango!? CONGRATULATIONS!!
Prango: hey, just wanted to stop in and say, I am a new GREAT GRANDMA!...Boy, 7lbs,10 oz..
jm: hello there :) how r u ?
glenndz: hi,can we exchange links???im new here :)
Holly: JACKI!!! HI GORGEOUS! Glad to hear you had a agreat time with the kids, sweetie; I'm sorry you've been dealing with headaches, though. That sucks. Just take it easy, okay?
MadartistJ: I am just now starting to feel myself again. Have been having these bad headaches EGADS, I don't need 'em. My trip was so great to New York/Connecticut. Lovely time and my lovely girls just made me so happy. Love ya and hope you are well and happy dear one.
Jay: Hi, Holly! I appreciate your comments for my blog. Thanks a lot! Oh yes, for posting my section in your website. That's great! GRAZIE MILLIE!
The Tree: Wednesday, May 28/08, 8:04AM: Well hey Kris! Glad to see you, darlin'!
Kris: Hey Holly! Thanks for always stopping by and cheering me on! I'm gonna come back out here and read up on you later. I've been up all night helping with the science project!!
Holly: Thanks, Hazel! I'll have it up in the next couple of hours, then! It was an awesome piece - man, are you talented!
Holly: Hi Krishna. I agree that's definitely part of the problem. You can post in the Comment section of the current post, if you'd like. Or, when I post again later, you can use that one. I'll try to broach the topic gently and with the idea of genuine discussion...
Krishna: Hi Holly, There are a few facts that I would like to share with you. I appreciate a lot of points that you bring out. The problem is not with the American President whose name is mentioned. The problem is with the System. Even if you are made the President, you may do worse than what you hate now. It is big TOPIC that will open a lot of "insights" for you. Let me know where I have to post my coments. Let us do at one post of yours and follow it up.
Hazel: Thanks for stopping by and commenting. Feel free to use the 'Coccoon' track! Best ~Haze
GAYCANUCK: Good Morning... Hope you are having a good week. I'm still packing. Shawno
mAi: thanks for dropping by my site, have a great day!
Marites: Wow! HOlly, you have beautifully magnificent pictures!
Marites: Hi! thanks for visiting :)
Krishna: Hi, Thanks for the visit. I have been following the US wars from the Vietnam war. There are far more than meets the eye. Your posts just remind me what I read in papers. Keep it up.
Hazel Quinn: Thanks for stopping by and commenting.I've added u 2 my links.Thanks 4 encouraging us newbies! ~Hazel (from a country really sucked into America's 'battles')
Hazel Quinn: Hi! You've a very sophisticated journal & good to see someone saying what they really think. I'm new 2 bloggin but if u'd like 2 exchange links let me know. (I'm rating your site a 5) Best~Hazel :-)
Krishna: Hi, Very nice journal!
Holly Tree: Hi Prango! Just click the stars (choose the first one to rate me at a 1, or the last one to give me a 5).
prango: want to rate the page, but can't find the rate button.
Grizz: Yuppers just finished my post after your visit..I ranted a bit...Now I feel better...lol. Hope you had a great day yourself Holly...
Holly: Hi Holly! Thanks so much for your very kind message on my tag board! It's always fun to meet a fellow Holly. :) Have you done some renovation on your site in the last few months? I seem to remember seeing your site a while back, but it had a different look. (I'm guilty of lurking without saying hello - shame on me! :P ) Your site looks great, and it's got lots of cool links! Take care, and hope you have a great weekend, too!
GAYCANUCK: I LOVE YOUR NEW BLOGS The camper is my fave! S
Dee: You are so awesome Holly..in so many ways..Love ya..
LWM: Holly just coming by to say Hi and hope al is going well
lisgold: Hi i'm here to visit you and have a nice weekend
lisa: Hello just visiting and have a great weekend
Azodnem: Thanks for passing by and leaving your condolences. I'm sorry I haven't posted in the past few days, but I've been very buys. Should have a new post up by the end of the weekend.

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Thursday, June 5th 2008

9:44 AM

Reach Out

Every once in awhile, I come across a blog that I just have to say something about. Indeed, it's the reason I've added the "Visit these new blogs" icon above.  A couple of the blogs I've read have really concerned me: World Inside My Head is one, and Nicole's Blog is another. The third blog, Kelly's Corner, isn't new, but it's still deeply concerning.

In the first blog, the emotional pain is palpable. What that young woman has been through is just mind-blowing, and she needs all the love, caring, understanding, and support she can get.  No one visits her journal, and I think that's just awful.  Where are all the people who have been where she is? This community has more than seven million members - where are they?

In the second blog, the blog author isn't even sixteen years old, yet, and already, her perspective of people, life, and herself is seriously damaged. To some degree, what she's going through is normal - all teenage girls go through that kind of angst. But there's a more deeply-hidden pain just beneath the surface of her blogs; a pain that's crying out for recognition.  She's made several posts, and no one in the community has replied to any of them. She's got the usual "link me" stuff on her Tagboard, but no one has responded to her.

In the third blog, the blogger isn't new, but she is going through a very rough time - and she has been for a very long time - and it seems like the only person who ever visits her is me. 

This is a huge community.  Sure, it's the internet, and sure, it's blogging, but I think the word "community" should mean a lot more than it does, regardless of whether it's real-world or virtual. People don't seem to understand that there are people in this world whose only connection to the rest of the world is through the internet.  For many people, being able to connect can, quite literally, mean the difference between life and death.

I don't put up the links to new blogs for my health, and I don't choose just any blog to link you to.  I read a lot of blogs; those I post are blogs which I feel need and/or deserve your attention, either because they're thought-provoking and insightful, or they're funny and inspiring, or the blog authors are suffering and in need of love and caring from other human beings.

So, please visit the blogs I've linked to above.  Please.  Don't just be a blogger on a blogging site.  Be a human being in a community of human beings, and reach out when you're given the opportunity.

Have a great day, and thanks so much for dropping by.


10 berry picker(s).

Posted by K'Jan:

Thank you Holly. It really means a lot to me that you first took the time to read my blog and then mentioned me here. I *am* going through a rough time and could use all the feedback I can get. What's really sad is that there are *so* many people who have gone through what I have and worse and *so* many people who have felt what I'm feeling. You're a pretty special person for wanting to reach out to us.
Thursday, June 5th 2008 @ 10:02 AM

Posted by My-Kin Chieng:

I will definitely visit all the blogs you mentioned. By the way, I know you aren't ignorant. I'm more or less surprised you replied to me so fast. I didn't expected that so I was surprised when I came back from my food and watching tv break. keep up the good work and those layers will come off soon. Just keep battling and never love the motivation. If you do,that's ok, there is a new day to find it again :D
Thursday, June 5th 2008 @ 10:31 AM

Posted by Razor Family Farms:

Hey Holly! Thank you for not giving up on the blog! It's under construction right now but will have a really cool layout soon. I'll be blogging again in a few days. Yippee!!!

Blessings!
Lacy
Thursday, June 5th 2008 @ 11:01 AM

Posted by Holly:


HI KJ! You have a great deal to offer to people, sweetie, and you need to see and understand that you really are a special person with great gifts to offer the world. Most importantly, though, you need to see that you are not alone...

Hi My-Kin. Thankyou. I think it's so critical that people see they are being heard. So many people are suffering in silence and isolation; I feel that it's up to anyone who sees that to try to help out in any way they can. I can't fix people, but I can help others hear them crying. (Thanks for the ongoing encouragement, too, My-Kin. I can't tell you how much I appreciate that. )

Hiya Lacy! I'll say it's under construction! I got there, and I thought you were dismantling it, or something! I'm sure glad to know you're just making some changes to it, my friend; I'm not quite sure what I'd do if you took it down.

Thursday, June 5th 2008 @ 11:13 AM

Posted by Nicole C:

Wow! I am so speechless and touched. I'm Nicole and I had no idea whatsoever that people would read my blog amongst the millions on this website. It's incredible how shocked I am and amazed. Wow. It means A LOT to me that you recognized my blog. I didn't even mean to do it for attention. It was my way of letting everything out and I didn't even realize that I made an impact. Thank you!<3. You seem like a really good person. I can't even explain how shocked I am and happy right now.
Thursday, June 5th 2008 @ 2:47 PM

Posted by Holly:


Hi Nicole! Like I said in one of my comments on your blog, I found you while I was browsing the Journal Community page, and I had to come by. I'm glad I did, and I'm glad I could give you more exposure. Like I said, what you're going through is normal, even though it feels awful; having others offering different perspectives can actually help you, whether you just need to vent out, or if you need some support, or if you just need to know you're being heard.

Thursday, June 5th 2008 @ 3:01 PM

Posted by Hazel Quinn:

Thanks, Holly, for the support you give new bloggers, I know I've had extra traffic through you (hope it's been reversed!). I often just scan around and pop into other journals, some great, some just 'sell, sell, buy, buy' but it's certainly worth it for the gems.
Thursday, June 5th 2008 @ 5:12 PM

Posted by Chloe S.:

I know I just wrote something in your TAG board, but I forgot something. I've always believed that everything happens for a reason and I know that my having found your blog is not an accident. Holly, earlier today, I was looking back on my life, wondering what my purpose here on earth is. Last year, I started a blog at blogspot in the hope of reaching out to others in pain or the WALKING WOUNDED like me. I was unable to fulfill the goal of that blog due to work and stuff. To make a long story short, you may just have helped me realize what my purpose here on earth might be. I will revive my other blog because like you, I don't really just want to be "a blogger on a blogging site". I'd like to make a difference to others -- to the WALKING WOUNDED.
Thanks for helping me realize a few things.:)
Friday, June 6th 2008 @ 5:14 AM

Posted by Holly:


Hi Chloe. I believe as you do: Everything happens for a reason. I also understand that feeling of wanting to reach out in a certain way and not achieving that goal. I'm glad that something I said has empowered you in some way; it's good to know that one makes a difference, isn't it?

Write, Chloe. Write, and keep on writing. We may not always know if we're making a difference, but not knowing doesn't mean we're not impacting people...

Thanks so much for dropping by, Chloe. I hope you'll visit again...

Friday, June 6th 2008 @ 8:02 AM

Posted by Chloe S.:

Hello again, Holly. You've just made a difference in my life by reminding me of the wide ocean of hurting people in this world. I know the feeling of wanting to belong, to feel loved and cared for. I lost my Mom through ALS. I was just 14 when she was diagnosed with it, so it felt like I was robbed of a Mother's love. I was 22 when my Mama died. A few years later, I lost my best friend through cancer. Next came my Aunt(cancer). It's so painful to witness suffering. I know I find it hard to write about losing my loved ones. I guess, I'm not much for talking about my own pains. But, you see, I found healing when I started thinking about the pain of others and easing their pains instead of my own. It's ironic because I wanted to be a doctor, a healer. It never happened. Maybe, now, I can instead be a healer who heals through words. Thanks, Holly. I will be sure to visit here now and then. I will also tell you once I've started my other blog. Again, thanks. Sorry this comment is so long, ha ha. Take care.
Friday, June 6th 2008 @ 8:23 PM

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